Bad Parent

I have two children, the youngest of which is eleven, nearing twelve. Depending on where you live and who you ask that is fairly young, certainly not ready to be out on his own in the world and yet there are eleven year olds in just that situation. But old enough that he should not

Family Lau

The gentleman was in a wheelchair but looked like he should be on a gurney. His head was lolling to the side, eyes frequently rolling to the back of his head, skin waxy with the distinctive yellow tint of liver trouble. Our flight was late, the gate was changed, I had ample sitting around waiting

Down and Slightly Out

There is a Shell Silverstein poem I love (actually there are a lot of Shell Silverstein poems I love but I am thinking of one in particular right now); I think it is called ‘it’s rather dark in here’ but it starts, “I am writing these lines from inside a lion…” That should give you

Lots of Shades of Gray

It’s a presidential election year (also a leap year – one extra day of campaigning) so we get to see lots of headlines about controversial issues: abortion, immigration, labor rights, civil liberties, and they are all framed as if there were only two choices, for it or against it. I understand the one vote policy

NaNoWriMo aka WriNo

Well November is over. We have counted our blessings and reminded ourselves why we don’t spend more time with family. We have also come to the end of National Novel Writing Month (NaNoWriMo). I set forth into the month with excitement and plans (ever hear that joke, how do you make God laugh? Make a

Soapy Bubbles

Pine Valley is being wiped off the map. Erica Kane will no longer need a dozen changes of clothes to get through the day and a dozen men to wear in each new month, because she will no longer exist. If you never followed soap operas you probably have no idea what I am talking

Listen and Learn

I often remind myself to talk less and listen more, because I have a strong tendency to the former, and while I want to listen to others, indeed respect what is being said (most of the time) I seem to have a hard time stopping my mouth. The truth is I think I have a